Some examples of common false myths around transgender people are reported in this page.
Transgender people can have a positive and harmonious relationship with their body and not necessarly show discomfort towards their sexual physical features.
Transgender people may follow different paths according to their characteristics and personal needs. One of the main aims of psychological consultations is in fact to understand which path is best for every single person. Only some transgender people may need a medical gender affirming path: some may be happy living in a gender role according to their gender identity, while others may request also hormonal and/or surgical gender affirming treatments.
It has often been argued that transgender people live in a state of confusion caused by environmental factors (e.g. trauma, external influences) and that medicine should "cure" this confusion by alligning the person’s gender identity with the natal sex. However, the scientific literature has never found a link between family features or adverse life events and the genesis of gender variance, which in many cases has an early onset. In line, the so-called reparative therapies, that consist in forcing the transgender person to have a gender role and a gender identity in line with their biological sex, have never shown any efficacy. On the other hand, reparative therapies are harmful by causing anxiety, depression and suicidal ideation. Therefore, any attempt to allign one’s gender identity to the biological sex is currently condemned as not ethical.
Coleman E, Bockting W, Botzer M, et al. Standards of Care for the Health of Transsexual, Transgender, and Gender-Nonconforming People, Version 7. International Journal of Transgenderism. 2011; 13:165–232.
In the interaction with a transgender person, the use of the person's chosen name and pronouns is always extremely important. This counts of course also also during a gender affirming path. For some cisgender people the request to use a different name (and/or pronouns) may seem useless or may be interpreted as a "whim". However, several studies show that the use of the person's chosen name and pronouns is associated with lower levels of anxiety and depression. Furthermore, respecting how a person identifies has positive effects on self-esteem and psychological well-being as it shows respect, a sincere way of listening and promotes a sense of authenticity in the transgender person.
When we talk about gender identity, we refer to gender and not to sexuality. Indeed, too often the attention is focused on the sexuality of transgender people, while the most relevant aspect for well-being and full self-realization is linked to one's identity. Furthemore, a people’s gender identity does not give us any indication of their sexual orientation. In fact, gender identity is independent of sexual orientation and transgender people can have any kind of sexual orientation.
Sex and gender are two different parts of one’s sexual identity, together with sexual orientation and gender role. In particular, the term sex refers to the biological, chromosomal, hormonal, gonadal and / or genital sexual characteristics that a person is born with and that define a person as biologically male or female. The term gender, instead, refers to a broad spectrum of different definitions.
The transgender condition is not a mental illness or disorder. In line, in the latest version of the International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11) gender incongruence is included in the section of conditions related to sexual health.